Get a brand new pin every month before anyone else... Here's how! Official Post from Patrick + Tiffany from He + She: Every month He + She Friends will get a brand-new, previously unseen pin in the mail... and no, we won't show you before! It's a surprise, silly. That way you have something to look forward to. If you read to the end, I'll even tell you how to become one of those very special Friends.