Walburga Ehrengarde Helena, also known as Lady Paget (1839-1929) was a diarist, writer and a very good friend of Queen Victoria. She was a lady-in-waiting to the Prussian Crown Princess and then later married the British Ambassador to Copenhagen. Lady Paget died from burns after falling asleep too close to the fireplace when she was 90-years-old.
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