I am not a kitty. Ok, with you I can confess sometimes I am a total sissy. But I've been pretty brave, too, yes??? Had to be to have four kids by age 29. I wouldn't trade those days for anything. Today another teacher, an old man, said he used to be filled with such anxiety about the passing years, saying I've only got this many more years with my children. We are like that, trying to do all we can because we love them.