When kids don't follow the rules...they can pick from the consequence jar! Just use a peanut butter container and let them decorate it. Come up with your own appropriate consequences to put inside. :-)
Ideas: pick up one another's toys, sit quietly next to each other for 5 min, say something nice to one another, set the table together, draw a picture for the other person, have a drink and do "cheers"
Kids pick a "consequence" from the blue slip jar. If they pick "Mercy," they don't have to do a chore. Instead, they have a few minutes of quiet time to think about how God gives us mercy even when we don't deserve it. :: delia creates: Pin Test: Parenting With Glitter and Blue Slips