"You can have anything you want in life if you dress for it." -Edith Head However, you also need to have a matching mindset. Self-doubt even when dressed up in heels can make it impossible to achieve your goals.
Self-confidence is the best outfit, rock it and own it. Parents think if they give their children everything they want, they're doing them good. Instead teach them how to have self-confidence. That will take them much farther in life.