Dalai Lama: 18 Rules of Life - Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. When you lose, donâ€™t lose the lesson. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
Give the ones you love wings to fly, roots to come back, and reasons to stay - Dalai Lama Quote
wisdom - Always choose kindness. Unless you're dealing with a real asshole and you have access to a flame-thrower. Then choose the flame-thrower.