I've been looking for this.. River's timeline and the doctor's, meeting points in respect to linear time. Brilliant!
You'd need a flowchart to understand River and the Doctor's confusing timelines - so we made one
River Song's Timeline. Watch in this order if you'd like to…
River song's perception of her timeline with the doctor, This is what they show...Mind you there may be other options
Oh the River Song feels ...Your story rips my heart out every..single...time i think about it
Tutorial: TARDIS journal by ~katien22 on deviantART
Finally somebody plotted it out